When i watch tv i get stomach pains PART2<<<<<?

Ok, so iv found out about why i hurt when i see people kissing, coz i want to kiss, its an urge, to be honest a part of me new that but,dont have a bf, coz im 13!!!! But i get the same pain when some one gets beaten up, like, hit, or kiked, like, something with emo-ish emotions. OR if they start crying or self harm, or dus anything generally emo-ish =S i get the same "urge". But to what, do i hav the urge to hurt, or the urge to be hurt, thats what i dont get. (i think its the wanting to be hurt btw)